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Thursday, April 24, 2008

20080423 An apparition of Governor Robert L. Ehrlich

An apparition of Governor Robert L. Ehrlich

April 23, 2008

Yesterday, as I walked down Fourth Street in Winston-Salem, North Carolina; I happened to look up at the building at One West Fourth Street, where the offices of “Womble Carlyle” are located and there it was…

It was, well, it was, ah – Gov. Bob.

He’s everywhere… He’s everywhere - - but where we sorely need him these days – in the statehouse in Annapolis, Maryland.

Fortunately I had my camera readily available and snapped a photo. See for yourself.

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April 23, 2008

The Winds of Darkness

Kevin E. Dayhoff

On April 12, Gov. Martin O’Malley announced his administration’s opposition to the construction of wind power generators on public lands under the jurisdiction of the Maryland Department of Natural Resources.

April 9, 2008

Wendi Peters – Mount Airy’s Steel Magnolia

Kevin E. Dayhoff

People were delighted to see former Maryland Gov. Robert L. Ehrlich, Jr., last Friday when he came to Frederick County in support of Mount Airy Councilwoman Wendi Wagner Peter’s re-election bid.

20080424 This week – or so, in The Tentacle

This week – or so, in The Tentacle

April 23, 2008

The Winds of Darkness

Kevin E. Dayhoff

On April 12, Gov. Martin O’Malley announced his administration’s opposition to the construction of wind power generators on public lands under the jurisdiction of the Maryland Department of Natural Resources.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

How to Make Trash Go Away

Kevin E. Dayhoff

Tomorrow the Carroll County Board of Commissioners will deliberate in open session and – hopefully – make a decision regarding the offer from Frederick County to join forces to make 1,100 tons of trash a day go away.

April 9, 2008

Wendi Peters – Mount Airy’s Steel Magnolia

Kevin E. Dayhoff

People were delighted to see former Maryland Gov. Robert L. Ehrlich, Jr., last Friday when he came to Frederick County in support of Mount Airy Councilwoman Wendi Wagner Peter’s re-election bid.

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Thursday, April 24, 2008

Republican of the Year

Patricia A. Kelly

My mom, Dorothy Kelly, recently featured in the Frederick News Post with a headline that included the word “Opinion,” was born in Tioga, Texas, on April 14 1925 to Raymond and Dovie Bodovsky, farmers, is the 2007 Republican of the Year for Frederick County.


A Prime Example

Chris Cavey

Last week was quite an adventure…a two-day trip to St. Paul, Minnesota – site of the 2008 Republican National Convention. The goal for the trip was to “scout out” the city, the Maryland Delegation’s hotel accommodations, and available venues. The best part, however, was my side trip to the State Capitol.


Order from The Smorgasbord

Joan McIntyre

The newest trend is mini burgers. I’m going one better and giving you four mini-articles this week. Would you like bacon, or cheese, or fries on the side?


Wednesday, April 23, 2008

The Winds of Darkness

Kevin E. Dayhoff

On April 12, Gov. Martin O’Malley announced his administration’s opposition to the construction of wind power generators on public lands under the jurisdiction of the Maryland Department of Natural Resources.


Days in The Desert

Tom McLaughlin

"Good luck to you" is the farewell greeting stated to people when used instead of "bye" or "have a nice day" here at Sam’s Town Casino and R.V. Park.


Tuesday, April 22, 2008

"Mr. Inside" Out

Roy Meachum

For a little shy of 25 years, Josef Ratzinger furnished John Paul II a strong base. While the ebullient Polish prelate toured the outside world, kissing earth and babies by the score, the man who would become Benedict XVI tended to inside chores.


Keeping the Basket Full

Farrell Keough

I have the great privilege of enjoying a variety of friends. It is likely that my ability to keep and keep up with these people is more a tribute to my wife, (She Who Must Be Obeyed), than to my sterling personality.


This is NOT a Test! – Part 2

Steven R. Berryman

Now that you have been exposed to the various levels of potential hazards hanging over us all like Damocles’ sword in Part 1 on yesterday’s TheTentacle.com, the onus to take action now lies squarely on you.


Monday, April 21, 2008

General Assembly Journal 2008 – Volume 10

Richard B. Weldon Jr.

Last week, we spent some time considering the end of the General Assembly session. The conclusion: Rest easy Marylanders, the legislature has gone home for the year.


This is NOT a Test! – Part 1

Steven R. Berryman

Your radio or television begins the strange squealing, coded sounds you have heard so often before. “Here we go again” is the first thought that comes to mind. Programming is instantly interrupted. In disbelief, the Emergency Alert System (EAS) continues with “This is NOT a Test!”


Friday, April 18, 2008

Darker Days

Roy Meachum

It's hard to know where to put the blame, on government or the web of businesses caught up in the current economic crises. That word is plural, in case you read "crises" quickly.


Clinton Woes, the O’s and Global Warming

Edward Lulie III

A certain amount of smug belief in consensus thinking is pretty typical of those in the major media. The one thing about the media being certain of something is that it almost always guarantees that they will be wrong. Lately we have a number of examples of that proving to be the case yet again.


Thursday, April 17, 2008

Flies in The Ointment…

Farrell Keough

Zero Waste or Zero Landfill is a somewhat new catchphrase gaining use in our lexicon. Let’s be clear, there is no such thing as Zero Waste. Sooner or later, virtually every product we use becomes waste. To believe any different is to fool yourself.


Republicans v. Democrats: A Primer

Patricia A. Kelly

This is for me, as much as for you, a study of the theoretical differences between the two major political parties, one of which will provide us with our next president.


Wednesday, April 16, 2008

How to Make Trash Go Away

Kevin E. Dayhoff

Tomorrow the Carroll County Board of Commissioners will deliberate in open session and – hopefully – make a decision regarding the offer from Frederick County to join forces to make 1,100 tons of trash a day go away.


Las Vegas Bound

Tom McLaughlin

Viva Las Vegas! Viva Las Vegas! The Elvis Presley tune has not left my brain since I decided to visit that city in the desert.


Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Havemus Papam!

Roy Meachum

After the cardinals' votes are counted, a white plume from the Sistine Chapel tells St. Peter's Square and the world "We have a pope!" "Havemus Papam," in Latin, once the customary language within the Vatican's walls.


A Change in Direction Needed

Nick Diaz

As your son or daughter and their friends were moving from elementary school to middle school, you may have noticed that a number of them did not want to be identified as “smart kids” – even though they had always done rather well during their elementary years. Some of them were afraid that they would be picked on by other students if it were known that they were bright. Others just wanted to fit in.

Laura Rhodes offers a helping hand to those in need


Rhodes offers a helping hand to those in need

04/23/08 By Kevin E. Dayhoff


Recently I had an opportunity to catch-up with one of Carroll County's true whirlwinds, Laura Rhodes.

We first compared notes on the Rock Ball, this week's fund-raiser for Granite House, one of the largest nonprofit mental health care organizations in Carroll County.

Rhodes is currently program development manager at Granite House.

However, for much of our visit we talked about a relatively new initiative, Respite Connection of Carroll County.

First, when I arrived at her closet-sized office, she was doing what she does best -- multi-tasking in a number of different directions, all at break-neck speed.

To make up for the lack of floor space, Ms. Rhodes uses the "stack-it-high" method of organization.

If you're not familiar with Granite House; it was established in 1979 as critical resource in Carroll County's social-welfare safety net to assist folks with mental illness.

Granite House's network of psychiatrists, clinical social workers, nurses and licensed counselors assist members of the community to receive the necessary guidance and support to make a fresh start.

Proceeds from the "Rock Ball" benefit Granite House's Charitable Fund, which was created to help subsidize the cost of mental health care for those who cannot afford it.

"We strongly believe that all people should be able to receive the metal health care they need," Laura said. "Simply put, É mentally healthy people are more productive community members."

Many folks know Rhodes from when she served on the Carroll County Board of Education (2002 to 2005).

Others remember when she was manager of an initiative to improve community health for the Partnership for a Healthier Carroll County.

A few years before she and her family moved to Carroll County from Florida in 1986, she earned her bachelor's degree in criminology and psychology from Florida State University and a master's in counseling psychology from the University of West Florida in 1984.

As soon as she made Mount Airy her home, she threw herself into working for children and our community.

"I always felt that you have no right to criticize unless you're willing to be part of the solution," said Laura. "I wanted to be part of the solution."

Speaking of doing her homework and identifying needs in the community, Rhodes was excited to tell me all about Respite Connection -- a new collaboration to help provide respite care for families with children with disabilities and mental health challenges.

In layperson's terms, this is about giving folks who have a family member who needs constant care a break by identifying a network of caregivers and providing them with appropriate training.

The idea is to team up with community leaders and advocacy organizations -- such as Eldersburg's Mona Freedman and her Caring Communities of Carroll County; Sharon Glass and Families of Children with Autism Support Group; Heather Powell of Change Inc.; Lynne Humphries-Russ of the Maryland Coalition of Families for Children's Mental Health; and Karen Koenigsberg of Get Connected Family Resource Center.

Rhodes said the goal of Respite Connection is to increase the number of trained individuals to provide respite to families with children (birth-25) with mental health disabilities or developmental disabilities in Carroll, and to promote awareness of and access to the new centralized list/registry of respite providers.

This list is called the Caring Network Respite Care Registry offered by Caring Communities.

The measure of any community is how we take care of our friends and neighbors in times of need.

Most of us agree that the best social-welfare safety net is provided by nonprofits.

Hats off to Laura Rhodes and the many other folks who roll up their sleeves to make a difference and help sustain Carroll County as a wonderful place to raise a family.

If you'd like more information about contributing to Granite House's Charitable Fund or learning more about Respite Connection, or any of the services provided by Granite House, call 410-876-3007, Ext. 140, or visit http://www.granitehouse.org/.

By the way, Granite House's annual Rock Ball is scheduled for Saturday, April 26, at 7 p.m., at St. John's Portico in Westminster.

The event features dinner, music, a silent auction, art exhibit and more. Tickets are $100. Call Laura at the number above to see if any seats are still available.


Kevin Dayhoff writes from Westminster. E-mail him at: kevindayhoff AT gmail.com.

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Wednesday, April 23, 2008

20080423 Tofu Dusk at the Mellow Mushroom

Tofu Dusk at the Mellow Mushroom

The story of the tofu sandwich at the “Mellow Mushroom” in six parts.

April 23, 2008 by Kevin Dayhoff

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5058mbS9zdc

Winston-Salem, North Carolina - - This is the story of Mrs. Owl and I having hummus with pita bread, a tofu sandwich and a calzone; at the “Mellow Mushroom,” 4th and Marshall St., Winston-Salem, North Carolina. The story is told in six – or so parts…

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1. Winston-Salem, North Carolina 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

2. 4th and Marshall St., Winston-Salem, North Carolina 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

3. Mellow Mushroom, www.mellowmushroom.com Winston-Salem, North Carolina 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

4. Ms. Salem Editing, Mellow Mushroom, 314 West 4th St., Winston-Salem, North Carolina. 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

5. Ms. Salem Editing et les amis, Mellow Mushroom, 314 West 4th St., Winston-Salem, North Carolina. 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

6. Mrs. Owl, the newspaper reader, Mellow Mushroom, 314 West 4th St., Winston-Salem, North Carolina. 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

7. And the band played on… Winston-Salem guitar player… Winston-Salem, North Carolina 04/23/2008 www.kevindayhoff.net

The end

Kevin Dayhoff writes from Westminster Maryland USA.

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His columns and articles appear in The Tentacle - www.thetentacle.com; Westminster Eagle Opinion; www.thewestminstereagle.com, Winchester Report and The Sunday Carroll Eagle – in the Sunday Carroll County section of the Baltimore Sun. Get Westminster Eagle RSS Feed

“When I stop working the rest of the day is posthumous. I'm only really alive when I'm writing.” Tennessee Williams

Accept differences, Be kind, Count your blessings, Dream, Express thanks, Forgive, Give freely, Harm no one, Imagine more, Jettison anger, Keep confidences, Love truly, Master something, Nurture hope, Open your mind, Pack lightly, Quell rumors, Reciprocate, Seek wisdom, Touch hearts, Understand, Value truth, Win graciously, Xeriscape, Yearn for peace, Zealously support a worthy cause. (Author; Renee Stewart)

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Middle-class wages are going extinct, and the paper's gloomy economics reporter Louis Uchitelle is on the case.

Lizette Alvarez Still Supporting the Troops
The military's full of felons, says the same reporter who smeared soldiers as criminals in a front-page report in January.

Joe Lieberman's "Lurch to the Right"?
A strangely hostile John Broder claims Lieberman "could become the first person to lose the vice presidency on both major party tickets."

20080421 An interview with Laura Rhodes about Respite Care in Carroll County

An interview with Laura Rhodes about Respite Care in Carroll County

Photo credit: An interview with Laura Rhodes, the Program Development Manager at Granite House. April 4, 2008 Photomontage by Kevin Dayhoff

Monday, April 21, 2008 by Kevin Dayhoff

Westminster, Maryland - This Wednesday’s Westminster Eagle column (Westminster Eagle Opinion; www.thewestminstereagle.com) will be focused on “Respite Care,” a new initiative in Carroll County that has been brought about, in part, by Laura Rhodes.

What follows here are some outtakes from the column – along with some necessary context in order for the outtakes to make some sense.

Please find some additional information on the Respite Care initiative that I pulled off the web in the appendix.

Recently I had an opportunity to catch-up with one of Carroll County’s true whirlwinds, Laura Rhodes.

And no, in spite of the fact that she is has worked for many years in various capacities as a mental health counselor, I was not there to see her for professional counseling.

It was a social call. Ms. Rhodes and I have worked together on many initiatives over the years - too numerous to mention.

As an aside, please add Ms. Rhodes to your list of Carroll County community leaders who are heavy metal aficionados. If you are keeping track at home, that list includes such folks as Westminster Police Chief Jeff Spaulding and former Westminster Volunteer Fire Department President Chris Cull.

We first compared notes on the “Rock Ball,” an upcoming fundraiser for Granite House, one of the largest nonprofit mental healthcare organizations in Carroll County. Ms. Rhodes is currently the Program Development Manager at Granite House.

However, for much of our visit we talked about a relatively new initiative, “Respite Connection of Carroll County.” More on that in a minute…

When I arrived at her closet-sized office, she was doing what she does best – multi-tasking in a number of different directions – all at break-neck speed. To make up for the lack of floor space, Ms. Rhodes uses the stack-it-high method of organization.

If you are not familiar with Granite House; it was established in 1979 as critical resource in Carroll County’s social-welfare safety net to assist folks with mental illness.

Granite House’s network of psychiatrists, clinical social workers, nurses, and licensed counselors assist members of the community to receive the necessary guidance and support to make a fresh start.

In an era in Carroll County when so many folks move here and start complaining before they know any of the history or traditions of our community, Ms. Rhodes took the course that has been a critical component of all successful community leaders; she did her homework. She built bridges by investing years of hard work getting to know the community and our leadership.

In a published interview from a number of year’s ago, it was noted that her “efforts and determination to know the issues earned her a reputation for being well-prepared to make decisions.”

To which Ms. Rhodes remarked, “I always felt that you have no right to criticize unless you're willing to be part of the solution. I wanted to be part of the solution.”

Speaking of doing her homework and identifying current needs in the community and then, Ms. Rhodes was excited to tell me all about a new collaboration to help provide respite care families with children with disabilities and mental health challenges.

In layperson’s terms, this is about giving families, who have a family member who needs constant care, a break - by identifying a network of caregivers and providing them with appropriate training.

The idea is to team-up with other community leaders and mental health advocacy organizations such as Mona Freedman with “Caring Communities of Carroll County,” Sharon Glass - “Families of Children with Autism Support Group,” Heather Powell - CHANGE and Lynne Humphries-Russ - Maryland Coalition of Families for Children's Mental Health, and Karen Koenigsberg – “Get Connected Family Resource Center.”

In an era in Carroll County when so many folks move here and start complaining before they know any of the history or traditions of our community, Ms. Rhodes took the course that has been a critical component of all successful community leaders; she did her homework. She built bridges by investing years of hard work getting to know the community and our leadership.

According to information provided by Ms. Rhodes: “The goal of Respite Connection is to increase the number of trained individuals to provide respite to families with children (birth-25) with mental health disabilities and/or developmental disabilities in Carroll County and to promote their awareness of and access to the new centralized list/registry of respite providers -- The Caring Network Respite Care Registry offered by Caring Communities.

The measure of any community is how we take care of our friends and neighbors in their time of need.

Hats off to Laura Rhodes and the many other folks who routinely roll up their sleeves to make a difference and help sustain Carroll County as a wonderful place to raise a family.

If you’d like more information about contributing to Granite House’s Charitable Fund – or on “Respite Connection,” or any of the services provided by Granite House, call 410-876-3007, ext. 140, or visit www.granitehouse.org.

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Appendix

New Respite Care Training Program In Carroll County

Getting Connected Family Resource Center

http://www.granitehouse.org/services/

Retrieved April 21, 2008

The Get Connected Family Resource Center is a referral center for families with children who have developmental disabilities, mental health issues, substance abuse issues, interpersonal violence experiences or other concerns. The Center is also sponsoring a Respite Care Provider training, click here for more information. This is a free program for any Carroll County family and is funded through the Carroll County Local Management Board. For more information on accessing services, go to www.getconnectedcc.org

NEW RESPITE CARE TRAINING PROGRAM IN CARROLL COUNTY

http://www.caringcommunities.org/respiteconnection.html

Retrieved April 21, 2008

Respite Connection of Carroll County Offers Respite Care Training

Information: respiteconnection@caringcommunities.org or 410-549-5707

The Carroll County Local Management Board (LMB) determined that respite care for children with disabilities and mental health challenges is apriority area.

Several county organizations and agencies developed a collaborative approach -- Respite Connection of Carroll County – to address the respite dilemma for families to have more providers, trainers and a linkage to the community.

The goal of Respite Connection is to increase the number of trained individuals to provide respite to families with children (birth-25) with mental health disabilities and/or developmental disabilities in Carroll County and to promote their awareness of and access to the new centralized list/registry of respite providers -- The Caring Network Respite Care Registry offered by Caring Communities.

Two eighteen-hour Respite Caregiver, and two Train the Trainer, training sessions will be offered in Carroll County in May and June 2008 at no cost to individuals. The sessions will consist of respite care training in developmental disabilities, mental health issues, cultural competence, and "restraint-free" de-escalation techniques. In addition, 100 Carroll County families will be registered on the Caring Network Respite Care Registry at no fee on a first-come, first-serve basis, thus increasing their access to respite providers.

Carroll County's Respite Connection is comprised of the agencies and
individuals listed here.

Granite House, Lead Agency for Respite Connection: Laura Rhodes, Program Development Manager

Caring Communities: Mona Freedman RN, Executive Director

FOCAS (Families of Children with Autism Support Group): Sharon Glass, Founder

Maryland Coalition of Families for Children's Mental Health: Lynne Humphries-Russ, Administrator

CHANGE, Inc.: Heather Powell, Director of Support Services

Get Connected Family Resource Center: Karen Koenigsberg, Family Navigator

Vicki Duerr, a family member of a young adult with a disability

FAQ'S COMING SOON! PLEASE CHECK BACK: http://www.caringcommunities.org/respiteconnection.html

Provided by The Carroll County Respite Connection.

Funding provided by the Carroll County Local Management Board

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Medicine and Health

Medicine and Health Mental Illness

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Kevin Dayhoff writes from Westminster Maryland USA.

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His columns and articles appear in The Tentacle - www.thetentacle.com; Westminster Eagle Opinion; www.thewestminstereagle.com, Winchester Report and The Sunday Carroll Eagle – in the Sunday Carroll County section of the Baltimore Sun. Get Westminster Eagle RSS Feed

“When I stop working the rest of the day is posthumous. I'm only really alive when I'm writing.” Tennessee Williams

Accept differences, Be kind, Count your blessings, Dream, Express thanks, Forgive, Give freely, Harm no one, Imagine more, Jettison anger, Keep confidences, Love truly, Master something, Nurture hope, Open your mind, Pack lightly, Quell rumors, Reciprocate, Seek wisdom, Touch hearts, Understand, Value truth, Win graciously, Xeriscape, Yearn for peace, Zealously support a worthy cause. (Author; Renee Stewart)

20080421 An interview with Laura Rhodes about Respite Care in Carroll County


Tuesday, April 22, 2008

20080422 The Happy Colors, Massive Attack, and Carly Simon

The Happy Colors, Massive Attack and Carly Simon

April 22, 2008

Massive Attack - Live With Me

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LgrGHWSy6k

This song reminded me of:

Carly Simon- “That's the Way I Always Heard It Should Be” from 1971

http://youtube.com/watch?v=JdFjWZBRl6U

And it also reminded me of:

19960422 "The Happy Colors" The Dream of the Pink Zebras 04.22.1996 Binder # 15 v. #4.0095 07.1995 –

http://kevindayhoff.blogspot.com/1996/04/19960422-happy-colors-dream-of-pink.html

"The Happy Colors" The Dream of the Pink Zebras 04.22.1996 Binder # 15 v. #4.0095 07.1995 –

04/22/1996

"Life has a value only when it has something valuable as its object". HEGEL, Introduction to Philosophy of History (1852)

"We love life, not because we are used to living but because we are used to loving". NIETZSCHE, "On Reading and Writing" _ Thus spoke Zarathustra (1883-1892)

"Always develop solutions to challenges that can withstand testing conditions that closely approximate reality". GRANDPA DAYHOFF, "The Frozen Chicken Test" (11.1994)

...of which reminds me of a story that has been in my head for years... a love story called:

"The Happy Colors"

© Kevin Dayhoff April 22, 1996

A sultry August ocean breeze drooled over them as they stood poised at the railing on the balcony of the large art-deco condominium overlooking a vast ocean beyond. Far below little people and cars scurried about putting away the remains of another day at the beach. The cries of tired children, squeals of laughter and the banter of parental instructions all jumbled together with the calls of the sea gulls and an ocean's heartbeat pumped waves that crashed upon the shore. It was music written by the Great Composer in the sky. A piece called "The Happy Colors".

The colors were to be remembered so well. The breeze ruffling her long hair ever so delicately. The sparkle of her eyes as she gazed at the deep azure expanse of the ocean below. The deep maroon of the setting sun as it echoed off her glass of red wine held so deftly in her seasoned, thoughtful fingers. A warm smile sprung from her inviting crimson lips, brightening her face which reflected the flickering yellow candle light. A lone white candle stood sentry, melting on to a black tablecloth that maintained the remains of abandoned china and dessert for two. The cream of her graceful gown mimicked the creamy black russian captured in the solid glass grasped in his deeply creased and weathered hands. His graying hair contrasted with the dark black of his finely tailored black tuxedo.

Their conversation drifted from the previous discussion of how they had met, and parted, in their childhood years. Perhaps they had even been lovers in a previous life. The years had marched by. And although they had lived separately for all these years, they had never left each other. They hadn't regretted their lives apart, but, then again, they did. Neither had known the other was to be at this function. This meeting again, for the first time, all over again; it was of serendipitous happenstance. As wave upon wave crashed and pounded upon the shore below, their eyes remained transfixed upon one another, oblivious to the party's banter, as their hearts crashed and pounded in unison in their warm chests. A grandfather clock dutifully stood sentry and watched the crowd beyond, and kept them away, as it quietly announced the time, seemingly, only to them...Midnight.

A stimulating intellectual discourse ensued. Alice B. Toklas was instrumental to whatever it was, that Gertrude Stein became. F. Scott Fitzgerald needed the catharsis of Zelda's being in order to create. Nietzsche fleshed out the paragraphs of their life but Hegel defined their meaning and Sartre gave them the punctuation. They had built their lives, their own way, and though they had had their shortcomings here and there, they were happy with the lives they had lived, albeit apart. They had made the best choices that they could make, not that they always had the criteria necessary in order to make the choices. They had made their choices in life because they had to make the choices. They had soared in hostile air. In a life of no inherent meaning, they had created a meaning. Their meaning. Now, older and wiser, the works that they had created, the thoughts they had promoted, the decisions they had made; were all the foundation of the work that laid ahead, that needed to be done.

They continued on to a poem that had marked their decisions in life, by a sage author they had long since forgotten....Does one build a fence at the top of the chasm of life or provide for an ambulance below?

At that, the handsome young waiter tentatively inquired about their needs.... They had none. Then again. Maybe one more drink before they left the party and parted company once again. To again do what they had to do. Because it is what it is, this life of their's.

"Yes, I'll have another black russian for me and a glass of red wine for the lady. Thank you".

The jazz quartet played a soft number in the background as the party in her honor grew quiet, reflecting about their chance meeting. Many smiled, some mused philosophically, others miffed jealously. Meanwhile, on the balcony, the lovers discussed their latest endeavors as they entwined in dance to the soft caresses of the music, oblivious to the quiet banter beyond.

They danced so softly together. Her hand ran longingly through his graying hair. Her long hair blowing across his eyes. The sun dipping below a wanting horizon. The sea gulls sang their good night praises of yet another great day in a great life.

The wise grandfather clock called to them that it was, indeed, time to go. They wanted this moment to never end. As the waiter appeared at the door of the balcony, as they held each others hand so tightly and gazed into each others eyes, as they whispered how much they were in lover and how glad they were that they had found each other again.

They a paused at the railing of the 17th floor and gazed into the sun's remains of the day and promised that they'd never part again... At that;

they climbed upon the railing, and jumped.

Grandpa Dayhoff 04.22.1996

"The more absurd life is, the more insupportable death is". JEAN-PAUL SARTRE, The Words (1964)

"Man's 'progress' is but a gradual discovery that his questions have no meaning". SAINT-EXUPERY, The Wisdom of the Sands (1948)

"Life has to be given a meaning because of the obvious fact that it has no meaning". HENRY MILLER, "Creative Death", The Wisdom of the Heart (1941)

"Man is the only animal for whom his own existence is a problem which he has to solve". ERICH FROMM, Man for Himself (1947)

To be an artist is to jump...to jump from the comforts and confines...from behind the railing...then experience the free-for-all-fall of the intellectual, artistic unknown and document the meaning, your own meaning that which you and you alone, give this existence.

This piece has been in my head for years. I have not a clue as to what "the jump" is all about. Perhaps I should have left "the jump" in my head, but I had grown tired of the space it was taking up. Perhaps, "the jump" is an existential artistic exercise and can be interpreted as affirming. Anyway, I've always gotten a kick out of the incongruous, Hemingway-twist ending. I guess I'm a bit worried that many will find this piece disturbing. Well, it is what it is. I think perhaps the piece is allegorical. It's art. It's done. Now I have room for another piece.....Mr. Eaton would have liked this I'll bet....

Grandpa Dayhoff 04.22.1996

"The Happy Colors" The Dream of the Pink Zebras 04.22.1996 Binder # 15 v. #4.0095 07.1995 –

Kevin Dayhoff, a slave to the masters of the page - the little soldiers in my life – words

20080422 The Happy Colors, Massive Attack, and Carly Simon

Monday, April 21, 2008

20080421 Business Volunteers Unlimited Maryland's Friends of Baltimore Parks Day on May 3rd, 2008


Business Volunteers Unlimited Maryland's Friends of Baltimore Parks Day on May 3rd, 2008

Posted on Soundtrack Monday, April 21, 2008

Calendar Listing

Friends of Baltimore Parks and Middle Branch Shoreline Day

Saturday, May 3, 2008 8 a.m. – 1 p.m.


Beginning at:

Middle Branch Park Rowing Club

3301 Waterview Avenue

Baltimore, MD 21230

In honor of National Volunteer Week, Business Volunteers Unlimited Maryland’s Volunteer Central is hosting an event where Baltimoreans can beautify the city - Friends of Baltimore Parks and Middle Branch Shoreline Day on Saturday, May 3 from 8 a.m. to 1 p.m.

The day will begin with a light breakfast and kickoff at Middle Branch Park Rowing Club. Volunteers will then roll up their sleeves to garden, water, clean and beautify the shoreline and grounds at Middle Branch, Carroll or Latrobe parks. Participants will also receive lunch and learn how to be “green-at-home” during an afternoon program. Every participant will receive a reusable tote bag as incentive to start living more eco-friendly.

Families, friends, and co-workers are encouraged to attend. Children should be at least five years old and accompanied by an adult.

Registration is required. For additional information and to register visit www.volunteercentral.net or call 410-366-6030.

Media Contact: Mike Fila, Himmelrich PR, 410-528-5400

mike@himmelrich.com

Business Volunteers Unlimited Maryland

410-366-6030 ~ 410-366-6032 (fax) ~

175 W. Ostend Street ~ Suite 100 ~ Baltimore, MD 21230 ~

www.bvumaryland.org

20080421 CCBOC Agenda for the week of April 21, 2008

Carroll County Board of Commissioners Agenda for the week of April 21, 2008

Please Note: This weekly agenda is subject to change. Please call 410-386-2043 to confirm a meeting you plan to attend. All meetings will be held at the Carroll County Office Building

Room 311. (Unless otherwise noted)

Indicates Outside Activities

Monday ~ April 21, 2008

9:30 a.m. Opening Game ~ First Pitch Throw for

Carroll County Men’s Softball

Sports Complex, Westminster, MD

Commissioner Minnich


Tuesday ~ April 22, 2008

10:00 a.m. Administrative Session ~ Closed

12:00 p.m. Carroll County Chamber MD General Assembly

Wrap-Up Session

Hampstead, MD

Commissioners Gouge & Zimmer

3:00 p.m. Baltimore Metropolitan Council (BMC) Board Meeting

Baltimore, MD

Commissioner Minnich

Wednesday ~ April 23, 2008

8:00 a.m. Builders for the Bay Roundtable

Westminster, MD

Commissioner Zimmer

10:00 a.m. Issues & Insights

Westminster, MD

Commissioner Gouge

Wednesday ~ April 23, 2008 ~ Continued

1:00 p.m. Joint Board of Education/Board of County Commissioners Meeting

County Office Building ~ Room 311

Westminster, MD 21157

Thursday ~ April 24, 2008

8:30 a.m. Economic Development Commission Meeting

County Office Building ~ Room 105

Commissioner Minnich

10:00 a.m. Board of County Commissioners Open Roundtable Discussion

County Office Building ~ Room 003

Followed by

Board of County Commissioners Open Session

County Office Building ~ Room 311

Update on Change, Inc.

Rick Glaser, Executive Director

Review & Request Approval of the Federal Justice and Mental Health

Collaboration Grant Application

Department of Management & Budget ~ Mr. Ted Zaleski

Update on the Carroll County Commissioners Volunteer of the Year Award

Department of Citizen Services ~ Mrs. Jolene Sullivan

Rural Villages Boundaries and Report

Department of Planning ~ Mr. Steve Horn

Transportation Planning Update Continuation ~ Freedom Community

Department of Planning ~ Mr. Steve Horn

Request Approval

Application for Licensing for Day Habilitation Services

Department of Citizen Services ~ Mrs. Jolene Sullivan

Closed ~ Land Acquisition

Department of Public Works ~ Mr. J. Michael Evans

Chief of Staff ~ Mr. Steve Powell

Administrative Session ~ Closed

Friday ~ April 25, 2008

Saturday ~ April 26, 2008

9:00 a.m. Winfield Youth Softball Organization Ceremony

New Windsor, MD

Commissioner Gouge

Rawlings Leadership Conference

Queenstown, MD

Commissioner Gouge

3:00 p.m. 40th Anniversary of the Westminster Church of God

Westminster, MD

Commissioner Zimmer

Sunday ~ April 27, 2008

8:05 a.m. “The Commissioners’ Report” – WTTR

Commissioner Minnich

Rawlings Leadership Conference

Queenstown, MD

Commissioner Gouge